Tantric Techniques for a Blissful Climax

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Tantric Techniques for a Blissful Climax

By Marjo Ramstadius

As we have been mentioning Tantra teaches females to attain more amplified climaxes. The female violin has to be played well enough such that fire does not evaporate water; water does not turn fire off. Man is like fire, woman is like water! To understand the female climax better, we should think analytically how the water is heated!

Always address the brain first! If you can’t have my brain, you cannot conquer my body! In Tantra all five senses are activated, Kama Sutra describes more than fifty touching, kissing, licking, caressing, holding, sucking techniques. You should create your own style! Tantric touch and kiss are very important; most of the time lovers do not touch themselves or even kiss! Masters & Johnson took those “sensate focus exercises”, most probably, from Eastern bed-side books, because touching is very important in Tantric love! You should sit down with your lover and discover novel methods of touching each other’s bodies. Read them from Tantra and Taoist books too! But the most important techniques in Tantric sex are the ones you discover by trial and error, not the ones you recite from books. In this book, many different methods are explained however with my Tantric lover we sat for one week and discovered 18 different ways of touching, 25 different ways of kissing, 12 different ways fondling, 20 different ways of cuddling, and made a long list of those, renaming them with nature names, such as “the kiss of the lion”, “the tickling of a kitty”, “the caress of the wind”!

Feeling each other’s bodies should be prolonged at least for half an hour. You can do sex with yourself, but you can’t cuddle with yourself only, you need your lover! For female’s hormones and brain chemistry work slower; it builds up! For males the cultural conditioning in the West is to get rid of the filthy semen as soon as possible and relax! During orgasm the hormone prolactin is released and makes both of them drowsy! But in males prolactin decreases YANG energy, while it increases Yang energy in females. So every man must know that the second, third and fourth climaxes become stronger gradually! Man should not ejaculate and lose his YANG energy so fast! Woman must train herself to attain multiple orgasms. It is only a matter of training, nothing more!

The man should not concentrate in genitals in the beginning, but more on exciting his partner! For instance Oxytocin is a cuddling and love hormone. Oxytocin has many different effects:

·        Oxytocin increases love between partners.

·        Oxytocin makes females more dependent on the particular partner.

·        Oxytocin induces a kind of pleasure and love dependence!

·        Oxytocin makes the woman the feel that she should be filled with lingam.

·        Oxytocin contracts involuntary muscles such as uterus.

·        Oxytocin induces orgasm if it is rushed.

·        Oxytocin makes woman ready for coitus.

·        Oxytocin gives the feeling of pleasure.

·        Oxytocin makes a woman more submissive towards her man.

How can a man induce Oxytocin release?

·        Most of the Oxytocin is released during sucking of nipples. Some women can have an orgasm by only sucking their breasts and nipples.

·        Touching properly and cuddling induces Oxytocin release.

·        Kissing, especially French kissing induces huge amounts of Oxytocin release. So do not start love making without a good French kissing session.

·        Stimulation of cervix with a vibrator induces Oxytocin release which makes a woman more ready for an orgasm.

Neo-Tantra combines science with Tantric tradition. Tantrists did not know Prolactin and Oxytocin, but discovered them by trial and error. Now we know much about brain chemistry and the physiology of female orgasm! So all men should understand how to change the brain chemistry of their partners gradually! It is a learned technique by trial and error and every woman is a different continent, even a planet! You should get ready to fly to a different planet with every different woman.

It has been determined by scientists that the factors of a woman to attain multiple orgasms and expanded sexual response (ESR) are:

·        The aptitude of the woman’s masturbating.

·        Her ability to attain multiple orgasms (clitoral and vaginal).

·        Her ability to experience vaginal orgasms.

·        The quality of her multiple orgasms.

·        The discovery of her G-Spot.

·        Using her PC-muscles perfectly well.

·        Discovering other erogenous zones in her genitals other than clitoris (G-spot, A-spot etc.)

·        The ability of her fantasizing and her imaginations.

So the man should know what the triggering loci are for a woman. Today we know that a woman can have an orgasm through:

·        The stimulation of the tip of the clitoris (glans clitoris) by tongue, hand, pressure, vibration (using a vibe), heat and cold.

·        The stimulation of Clitoral complex by means of coitus, pressure, finger playing, vibration, heat and cold.

·        The stimulation of G-Spot by finger, coitus (lingam), vibrator.

·        The stimulation of anus.

·        The stimulation of cervix and uterus by coitus, vibrator.

·        The licking and sucking of the nipples.

·        The stimulation of ear lobes.

·        The stimulation of the zones at the inner yoni (A-spot or an area on rectal wall, called as O-Spot)

How can a man give a profound orgasm to a woman?

1)    Get her ready to the plateau phase when she is ready to have an orgasm. This should take at least 30 min-60 min. The longer this period is the better the quality of her orgasms.

2)    Do not rush into intercourse. The intercourse should take place after she orgasms a couple of times.

3)    Learn cunnilingus technique very skillfully! Every woman loves to come by cunnilingus!

4)    Always take different kind of vibrators or massagers with you! Sex toys are a very important part of Neo-Tantra stimulation of women! Learn how to use the vibes and the effects of vibes on clitoris, labia, G-Spot, Yoni, Cervix and other spots in female body!

5)    Stimulate clitoris and G-spot at the same time! To do this use oil on clitoris. Rubbing by thumb and at the same time stimulating the G-spot is a method to induce a blended orgasm in a woman.

6)    During coitus use a vibrator, especially at the rear entry positions. Play with the vibrator while you go in and out. Dildos are very ancient descending from Tantrists and Taoists times, don’t forget! Or while you perform oral sex on her use a dildo vibrator.

7)    Always try to stimulate more than one erogenous orgasm triggering loci! This may induce a blended orgasm in a woman who has learned to attain both clitoral and vaginal orgasms. Blended orgasms are Tantric orgasms. For ESR do not forget that your partner should experience blended orgasms.

The Tantra techniques can be increased but, a man should always be patient to train a woman for better climaxes. Such a blissful orgasmic experience can only develop in a long term monogamous relationship. One night stands are just hiccups, while long relationships are laughter. You should train your Tantric partner’s brain first, then the body! But, novelties, fantasies, and new imaginations are always very important. Dopamine, which is one of the causes of female orgasmic pleasure, is released during an orgasm. Any fantasy and novelty will increase this dopamine release! The more dopamine, the more powerful the female orgasm is! A man should learn to play with the brain chemistry of the violin he is playing! So it is not Kundalini or Chakras, full of energy, but the body chemistry! This chemistry is the most important factor in a blissful female climax! You will learn how to change it in Neo-Tantra!