Tantra, Female Violin and Love

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TANTRA, FEMALE VIOLIN and LOVE

By Marjo Ramstadius

“How delicious an instrument is woman, when artfully played upon...how capable is she of producing the most exquisite harmony, of executing the most complicated variations of love, and giving the most divine of erotic pleasures”   - Ananga-Ranga- 15.-16. Century

Every woman is a violin. Without knowing how to accord a violin you cannot make any sounds in resonance from a woman. Tantra teaches the men how to resonate the sound of his female violin and how to accord it. Tantra says:

·        You can never accord female violin without warming up. Men are like fire, women are like water.

·        Never try to play the female violin when the time is not ready.

·        To accord the violin always address to the heart and brain, not the genitals.

·        When the female violin makes bad sounds, try to understand the strings, not the wood!

·        Play the female violin until the sound climaxes.

Tantric scriptures give us many analogies with the nature and female-male relationship. In Kama Sutra, most positions have analogies with animals. In Ananda Ranga similar natural homologies are made. To play the violin talently, first you have to address to the brain and then to the heart. Men are Mars, females are from Venus; they are so alien to each other. The fire wants to evaporate the water, water wants to use the fire to boil. If you can’t boil the water and try to evaporate it immediately, then you can’t play the female violin.

Love is very essential for Tantric sex. Without knowing each other’s bodies and souls, there is no Tantra! Tantra does not aim one night stands, quickie sex or group sex! To have good concerto out of that violin, you have to dive into the soul of the violin, without soul the violin will not accorded and will not make good sounds. The gestalt of the whole concerto is more important than the male fire burning the female violin all of a sudden! So female violin is concerned on the holistic aspects of love making, not focused on only one moment.

For most the women LOVE is the most important issue and this is very normal because female seeks the best sperms to fecundate her eggs, so she has to give herself totally to the loved one! And she needs protection and loving from that person. This is a result of evolutionary background of female homo sapiens. And this is natural. Polygamous behavior is none-Tantric and against the evolutionary background of the females.

Without a loving relationship, a woman may not feel herself secure and happy! In a loving relationship always try to heat the strings of the female violin up! And try to play it gently, tenderly with loving strokes to the strings the get best quality of sound! If you play the concerto properly, the sound will be so cute and pleasurable that you will be never forgetting this Tantric wholeness.

Love is a verb, not a noun!